— Meet Michael
I help clients end cycles they never chose but unknowingly carry.
I’m Michael, founder of Relationalchemy — a space for people ready to rewrite their emotional story, reclaim their voice, and build relationships rooted in truth, not trauma.
This space was born from my own healing journey — through silence, through shame, through the ache of relationships that looked good on the outside but felt like quicksand on the inside.
Relationalchemy isn’t about perfection — it’s about emotional clarity. It’s for anyone ready to come home to themselves.
Every one of us holds an emotional blueprint. Most of us never got to choose ours consciously. We inherit patterns — through dysfunctional family dynamics, internalised trauma, silence, or survival.
I grew up watching those I love suppress their feelings, avoid tough conversations, and confuse chaos for connection. I became an underachiever, the fixer — focused on others until I couldn’t anymore.
My healing journey led me to attending support groups, somatic and energy work, trauma-informed coaching, and deep relational inquiry. I now guide others through the same terrain — not from a pedestal, but from shared experience.
This is what I believe about healing.
- Healing is not about perfection. It’s about cultivating a grounded presence.
- You are not too broken. You are becoming conscious.
- Emotional maturity isn’t soft. It’s sovereign.
- We don’t fix people. We create the conditions for them to unfold.
- The body remembers what the mind forgets — and also how to come home.
This is what I believe about healing.
If you’re repeating patterns you swore you’d outgrow — you are not broken. You are waking up.
When I’m not working with clients, I’m often walking in nature, listening to music that lifts the spirit, playing guitar or trading markets.
I love deep conversation, good coffee, and that sacred moment when someone shifts and they realise: “I’m not broken. I’m waking up.”
In Imago, we have this premises “the unconscious purpose of intimate relationships is to heal childhood wounding so we can reach our full potential.” I believe our partners are our mirrors, and in each moment we have a choice.
Healing is a conversation. Let’s start one:
This isn’t just about healing. It’s about becoming the most honest version of yourself. I’m here to walk that with you.
— Michael | xxx